Hey, girl! I know that you are having a hard time balancing all your college tasks and assignments and making sure that your personal life is not in total ruins as the work piles up from chasing that degree.
You are driven, dedicated and practically married to school right now as you make that push toward earning your degree and moving into a career field of your choice. You are the overly focused girls and we all have at least one in our group of friends. In fact, you are so focused on school and all the work that goes with it to be successful, that you barely have a personal life with dating, partying and boys.
Come on girlfriend, nobody wants to be left alone and these are the best times of your life to have fun, meet new people and get into a relationship. For girls a little too focused on school, I thought it might be useful for you to have a little list of pros and cons of being in a relationship while studying at college.
Do Not Be Afraid
As you enter a new term at college, you will almost surely get overwhelmed with the number of papers and assignments that you will have to turn in. Each of them is accompanied by a rigid deadline, and writing them is your immediate job and responsibility. Thus, my first and best tip is to tell each other when you need to study. You have to be not afraid to tell your boyfriend when you need the time to study. If your boyfriend really loves you, he’ll understand that it is important for you, and it will not affect your relationships. I know, you sometimes think how good and convenient it would be to contact a term paper writing service and have everything done for you. And this is, actually, a good idea when it comes to combining your personal life and education, as a paper writing service may actually help you to save tons of time.
Just like any college assignment, relationships are a custom concept. You can adjust it the way you want in order to make you feel comfortable. If your boyfriend objects such a dialogue, you are almost sure to embark upon toxic relationships where there is nothing good waiting for you.
Planning Your Dates Is the Key
I am almost sure that you always plan your studies. You know that you have to go online and do research today because you have to turn in a paper in three days. Well, if you wonder what to do with your boyfriend, consider him to be another, long-term project that you have to work hard on to eventually polish it. Plan you dates in advance. In this way, you will be able to have your schedule organized like a professional. For example, if you plan your date for Sunday or Monday, you will have the entire week to deal with your college stuff and eventually enjoy your weekend. What is more, there is no point in having a boyfriend who is not ready to wait for you for a couple of days. Respect yourself, respect your time, and the others will surely respect you in response.
Study Dates
Who said that being in a relationship has to be an obstruction for your studies? Wonder how to balance relationship and studies? There is no need to, as you can simply combine them. The ultimate goal of every relationship is to progress as a couple. You have to help each other to get the best out of you in terms of developing yourselves as future professionals and individuals. Get on the study dates, and if you are good at math or English help your boyfriend to improve his grades. If he is better at something, he can also help you to pass the course with flying colors. You can write papers on the topics of your choice and provide each other with valuable and honest feedback.
Avoid Multitasking
Girl, remember you are not Napoleon or Julius the Caesar! You have to take proper health of your health — in order to keep up with the pace of your hectic life. Don’t you even dare thinking that you might become, for example, a brilliant writer if you don’t work hard enough solely on writing. Distracting yourself with a lot of different tasks — to be performed — over a short period of time is a mistake. Especially, this is a gross-gross mistake if you do it for your boyfriend. When posing yourself a question of how to balance between relationship and studies, you should always remember that there is no need for balancing between what can provide your living in the nearest future and the person who is not able to understand your needs and wait for you. You are not on service to your boyfriend. You are on service to your future self.
To Conclude
As you can see, there is, in fact, no disadvantages to combining education and relationships with your boyfriend. The point to be understood here is that a man, not a boyfriend but a real man, who loves you, will never dump or ditch you because of your studies. Your desire to become a professional should not offend anyone’s ego. When there is the right guy beside you, believe me, you will have no need to balance between anything. Your boyfriend should be happy that you spend your time hitting the books and not hanging out with the other guys. If this rule does not apply to your boyfriend, and he aggressively forces you to choose between him and your studies, you should almost certainly opt for the latter. Mutual respect is the foundation of any relationship, remember that!