In the world of relationships, we all know how hard it can be to find a “good guy.” They’re like a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow they’re that rare. Just as special though is the “good girl.”
The good girl gets a bad reputation for being too nice or boring. But a good girl has a few other things going for her that make her someone you actually want to hang onto for awhile.
She’s pretty mellow.
She doesn’t need to create a whole bunch of drama to prove her feelings to you. She’s definitely not the dramatic type and rarely gets angry. And it’s not about her, she wants to make you as happy as you make her. To her, relationships are a two-way street, so everything will be split evenly.
High maintenance isn’t her thing.
Clothes and makeup are definitely not how she shows herself off. She knows the true meaning of comfort, and isn’t afraid to lounge around in sweatpants and t-shirts on a Saturday morning with you watching football. She saves the high heels and dresses for special occasions, so prepare to see a completely different side of her when she does.
Simple is better.
Grand gestures and gifts are okay on holidays, but she would love cheesy texts and you cooking dinner for her so much more! She remembers the littlest things you do for her or tell her and they are what mean more to her than anything else.
Her relationships are good ones.
A good girl knows if a relationship, both romantic ones and not, are working. She’s got a sixth sense for when someone is a total fake and steers clear of them! The ones she holds onto are important to her and she is more than willing to do what it takes to make them work. She’s also very good about surrounding herself with the right people, so her friends are her biggest protectors. Watch out!
She knows what she wants but cares about you too.
Being a good girl doesn’t mean she’s boring. Instead, she goes after what she wants, no matter what it takes. She also cares deeply about what you want to though, so don’t be afraid to spill your dark secrets to her. Sharing them means the world to her and she will gladly keep them to herself.
She wants to be there for you.
A good girl is one of the best listeners. Ask her for advice and she will patiently listen to you and give you the best advice she can. Having her around means that you’ll always have another person to bounce ideas off of, no matter how crazy they are.
She holds onto things that matter.
She may be sentimental sometimes, but she knows what’s worth holding onto and what isn’t. If something, or someone, matters to her, she’ll try her best to keep it for a very long time.
She’s someone your Mom would like.
You don’t need to worry about bringing a good girl home to meet your mom because she’s going to love her. Her smile is beautiful, but your mom can see that this girl will treat you right. What mom doesn’t want that?
She will keep you on your toes.
Trying to figure out the good girl is a pretty hard job because she always keeps you guessing what she’ll do next, but not in a mean way. She’s just trying to keep things spontaneous because otherwise life is just boring! She’ll keep you guessing as long as you know her because one of her favorite things is seeing you laugh.
She truly cares.
A good girl has a huge heart, and she wears it on her sleeve. She’ll be the one who asks how your day is going because she actually wants to know, or ask you little things so she gets to know you better. If you’re going to be in her life, she wants to be able to read you like a book so she can take care of you.
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