Don't Allow His Lack of Affection to Undermine Your Big Heart

When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. The misinformation will feel unfair, but you have to stay strong. No one should have the ability to make you feel inferior. 

You will never know what people's’ intentions are. All you can do is take a leap of faith and hope for the best. 

I was in a relationship where I was not being treated fairly, where I was giving more love than I was receiving. It took me so long to realize that there is a difference between someone telling you they love you and them actually loving you. 

I’m the type of girl who chooses to always see the good in people, but I always get hurt in the end. I feel like that’s a mistake on my part because I never learn. I want to be hopeful and believe there is good in everyone. 

I was putting in so much effort in a relationship that really didn’t have a chance, but I wanted it to.  I’ve already spent so much of my time on him, I didn’t want it to go to waste. I wanted him but I also wanted to get over him, and neither was happening. 

My friends called it me being hopeful, but was it really? Was I just too stubborn to let go of something that I wanted so badly? 

Thing started to change and we started talking less and less. He became distant, and I started chasing him. He didn’t care and here I am wondering where things went wrong. 

I found myself missing him so much but it never seem like he missed me, and I guess because of it I stopped missing him. 

Just because I love him, doesn’t give him the right to hurt me. It hurts me because I feel like I tried so hard for us, but he didn’t try at all. Sometimes the best way to be happy is to let go of things you tried so hard to hold onto that are no longer good for you. 

Life goes to shit sometimes and it doesn’t matter what you’ve done. Shit happens, people leave. 

What I’ve learned is that him not being able to love you the right way has nothing to do with you. Yet when it ends, let it end. Don’t break your own heart for someone who isn’t doing the same for you. 

It’s not worth it. Any guy that comes around that doesn’t treat you like the princess you are deserves no part of you. You will one day experience joy as intense as this pain.

An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backwards. When life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means it’s going to launch you into something great. So stay focus, and keep aiming.