Before You Consider Dating My Best Friend, Read This

My best friend is one of the most amazing people I know. She’s the type of person that people gravitate towards because of her great personality and big heart. So I have to believe that she invited you into her world because you’re a decent human being. As her best friend, I have to look out for her, so I can’t help but feel hesitant about your feelings and intentions towards her. So if you’re thinking about being a constant in her life and winning her heart, read this.

She tends to always see the good in people, but don’t think that’s reason for her to give you all of her right from the start. You have to earn it. She’s been hurt enough to know better, so even though bad past experiences made her stronger and wiser, she can be guarded with her heart. As long as you’re transparent with your emotions, she’ll give you a fair chance. 

She had her share of shitty relationships but she’s still a very forgiving, loving soul and that shows a lot of character. She’s not the type to hold grudges or allow past bad experiences to dull her soul but that doesn’t mean she’s a pushover. She’s tough when she has to be and sweet when you show her that you’re not afraid to be vulnerable with her and show her that you have strong core values. 

She’s smart, funny and independent, so the guy for her has to be able to embrace all those qualities. Her strong personality can be intimidating at times, so you have to be confident of yourself and know how to challenge her emotionally and intellectually. 

She’s a big dreamer and her positive outlook on life is contagious, so if you fall for her that also means you’ll also love her dreams and enthusiasm for life. She needs someone who can support her life’s goals and be willing to go through her ups and down. Her heart is big enough to support yours as well, so don’t think loving her is all about just making her happy. 

She’ll be your biggest cheerleader and supporter. She’ll love you like no other, without conditions or limitations. She’s a pure soul that deserves the best because she’s capable of giving you her best. 

When you earn a place in her heart you’ll be grateful that she crossed your path. Treat her kindly, love her and respect her. She’s truly one of a kind, so I really hope you don’t blow this chance with her. 

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