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16 R. H. Sin Quotes That'll Make You Question Everything

Honestly, no one says it better than R. H. Sin. Sometimes he gives us the brutally honest truth we need to hear, sometimes the words our soul needs to feel full, and sometimes even words that make us question absolutely everything. 

1. Incapable of facing the painful reality of a love that's been lost, we lie in the form of false memories re-creating disaster and chaos into beautiful moments that never happened. (p. 118)

2. For me personally, I would not have found love in someone else until I found it in its purest form within myself first. You are the beginning. It all starts with you. The love you long for must first be cultivated on your own by yourself. 

3. You pretend that it's love because the truth is too painful and being alone is unbearable. 

4. One day your love for self will outweigh the love that keeps you holding on to someone who chooses to hurt you. One day the love of self will be your strength. That love will be more than enough reason for you to walk away for good. 

5. It feels hopeless and yet you're still hoping for something that'll never happen. 

6. These memories are silent killers the way they creep up unannounced, disguising themselves as innocent, knowing damn well they intend to cause harm and if that's the case tonight, you'll be the death of me. 

7. You are good enough. You are worthy. You are strong. You are beautiful. It's not your fault. Good things are coming. You are so important. You can't give up now. You just need to let him go. You have to stop beating yourself up. Forgive yourself for staying longer than you should have. You can't blame yourself. Yes, this is a sign. Yes, I'm talking to you. 

8. It's true, isn't it… You hold on to a person who creates chaos in your heart because they weren't always like that and you figure that staying around long enough gives them an opportunity to change. But here's the fucking truth…. they won't. 

9. But he always comes back. How can you be proud of a relationship with a man who chooses you whenever he's done fucking someone else? 

10. Her heart is a garden filled with dead roses and weeds from seeds planted by those who left. 

 11. And that's the issue. Sometimes when you see what you want, you forget what you need and what you accept is further from what you deserve. 

12. She has the patience to stay and the strength to move on. 

13. I'm constantly evolving. I just wish you were involved and a part of this change. I've been doing this without you, but I'm fine. 

14. But that's the thing. The most honest and hurtful truth. I don't think they changed. They simply became more of who they always were and the person you see now is the type of person you've tried your hardest to avoid, but it's hard to let go because you've already fallen for them. 

15. You've been holding on to someone who no longer deserves your grip. You've lost countless hours of sleep thinking about someone who doesn't deserve to be on your mind. You've displayed an amazing ability to care so deeply unconditionally and you're beautiful because of that. One day, you'll be rewarded with a love that mirrors your own, but first, you must move on without the person who refuses to love you. 

16. I can't stay here. I'm tired of being tired. I'm exhausted from yelling and not being heard. I no longer wish to fight with someone who refuses to fight for me. I am no longer willing to wear this coat of unhappiness. I miss my smile and I'll only find it with you gone, but instead of asking you to go, I'll leave.