I get it. People look at you as “the nice girl" and with that title comes the common misconception that you’re weak.
“You need to be strong. You need to let him go. You need to find the one who doesn’t break your heart.
Move on. And after you’ve moved on, I swear he will miss you. But you won’t miss him.
The people who do you wrong will be forgiven because why wouldn’t they? You’re too nice to stand up for yourself and put your foot down when you’ve had enough.
No. Put your foot down. You’re someone who is willing to give someone else the world while you’re given nothing but false promises and nights where you cry yourself to sleep.
In reality, YOU are the person who deserves the world.
I know. It sucks. You cannot believe the person who is “so in love with you" and “can’t imagine their life without you" is causing you so much pain. But here’s the thing, actions speak so much louder than words.
You’re going to find someone who not only tells you the kind of things that make you feel alive, but they will SHOW you.
They’ll put you first. They’ll go out of their way to make you feel important. They’ll give you a genuine apology if they ever hurt your feelings.
They’ll take the time to realize how special you are while they still have you, not wait till you’re gone. And when you find a person like that, you’ll be so glad you were finally able to say goodbye to the person who was never able to show you that.
Because the truth is after awhile you won’t miss them. But I can promise, they’ll miss you. They’ll search for you in everyone they’re with, and you won’t be found.
You’re one of a kind. And trust me when I say, you’re worth so much more than any boy who doesn’t see that.
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