Growing up I believed that true love was what I saw in the movies and what I read in fairy-tales. I thought it was supposed to be filled with beautiful flowers, little square boxes that held expensive things, and a horse (preferably one that talks...) but that is most definitely not the case.
I've come to learn that there's no universal definition of "true love."
There is one thing about love that is universal, and that's that it's not butterflies and rainbows 24/7. It's nothing like those movies and fairy-tales.
True love is found in the little things. True love is...
...Giving him some of your hot Cheetos, even though you mentally prepared yourself to eat the whole freaking bag.
...Waking up early so you can run and get him that coffee he loves, just to make sure he starts his day off right.
...Sharing the DJ rights in the car even when you don't want to, so you both get to jam to your favorite songs.
...Watching violent action movies, even though you hate them with a passion because you know they're his favorite.
...Falling into the toilet Every. Single. Day. He has yet to learn to put the toilet seat back down, but you deal.
...Fighting over who has the better dance moves, even though you both have absolutely no rhythm.
...All about knowing that you'll always care for this amazing human being for the rest of your life.
...Having zero doubts exist in your mind whatsoever about how much you love him, no matter how bad things get.
It really isn't some magical fairy-tale filled with talking animals and huge ass castles. It's passionate, crazy, complicated, painful, and so much more. But believe me, if it is any of those adjectives, it's real. And it's worth it.
Love is hard. There are days where it may feel as close to perfect as it possibly could, and there are days where you want to wring each other's necks over the smallest argument.
But I swear to you, I could never, ever, change the love that my boyfriend and I have for anything in the world.
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