The difference between a ‘fuckboy’ and a ‘forever boy’ is that ‘fuckboys’ will never think you are enough.
A ‘fuckboy’ will seem congenial and ‘different’ from the rest. He will seem magical, luring you in with his eye contact and tiny kisses on your neck.
A ‘fuckboy’ will take you out when it is convenient for him. But when he does, he will do everything right and say everything right. He will tell you how special you are. How ‘different’ you are from anyone he has ever met.
And you’re going to believe him. He will intertwine your fingers with his and coat your heart with a layer of false promises, and you’re going to think he means it.
You’ll trust him. You’ll believe in him and will give him your heart. He will make you feel like you’re the only one. Like maybe this time, someone recognizes that you’re special. Like maybe this time, someone finally sees how great you are and everything is going to change.
Until he changes his mind, and he will, because he doesn't care for anybody other than himself.
A ‘fuckboy’ will beckon you towards him and adore you, until it becomes too much for him. He will court you until he is done with you. Because a fuckboy dates on his own terms. He doesn’t fall in love. He doesn’t do ‘commitment’.
He is only seeking cheap thrills. He will make you part of his personal entertainment. And one day he will give you blindsided break up.
A forever type of guy is the kind that starts off slowly. He will be cautious at first. Making sure he doesn’t say too much or too little.
He’s not going to smother you with kisses or hugs on the first date. He’s not going to sweep you off of your feet right away. But he is a true gentle man.
You’re going to be guarded with him, not knowing what it all means. Not knowing if his heart is true. But the thing about love is, it takes time to grow and to blossom. It doesn’t start off like a forest fire.
He will be patient with your heart. He will try to understaff your likes and dislikes.
You'll be his sole focus. He only dates one girl at a time because he respects your individuality.
He will be careful in the way he looks at you. Not wanting too much of you, but his intentions are genuine.
Forever boys will love you for not only your strengths but also for your weakness. They'll understand you shortcomings and work around it.
They will never grow tired of the way you smell and the way you taste when your lips touch theirs. They will never grow tired of the sound of your laugh, or the way they say your name. They will never ever walk out. Because it’s not a game to them. It’s real life.
Don’t fall for someone’s charm and sweet words just because they seem pleasing to you in a fleeting moment. Don’t fall for someone just because they seem like they want you for you. No.
Fall for someone’s heart and someone who becomes truly happy when you are happy, who motivates you and celebrates your achievements. Fall for the way he takes care of you and the way he nourishes you.
Fall for someone’s sincerity and true intention who is going to stay. Not someone who is going to run.
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