“I would rather be a hot mess of bold action, a make-it-happen-learn-on-the-fly kind of person than a perfectly organized coward”
She’s had it rough and when her heart was at its weakest point she coped with the pain at best she could. She was determined and willing to heal and the truth is that being a hot mess is what got her through it.
Because to be a hot mess is to be human, it means she’s not afraid to embrace her imperfect-self and vulnerability.
At the end of the day, it’s what helped her find the balance that she needed and it made her stronger.
No one is one hundred percent prepared to deal with pain, but she was able to survive the darkest hours by giving herself permission to be a mess, having faith in herself, and embracing whatever life was throwing her way, fearlessly.
There’s no right way to deal with a broken soul, what’s important is that you don’t hurt yourself more in the process.
Being a hot mess gave her the tools to successfully cope with life’s challenges, because it gave her permission to fully embrace her emotions, evaluate her actions and reactions and make mistakes. And those mistakes are the lessons that she needed to find the right way out of the darkness and move forward.
She knew in her heart that the pain was temporary and that she would eventually come out on the other side.
But it’s hard to keep a level head when suffering clouds your mind and all you want to do is scape, physically and emotionally from being pulled down into a pit of destruction. It takes courage to avoid losing yourself during your difficult times. It takes strength but most importantly, it takes self-love. And in order to love yourself, you have to wholeheartedly accept every part of you, mess and all.
She understands that she doesn’t need to have it all together to be okay.
She knows that what matters is to make the best of her circumstances without betraying her true self.
Being a hot mess doesn’t mean she’s not capable of rising from above, it just means she’s courageously able to confront the good, the bad and the ugly in order to find peace and balance. It doesn’t mean she’s damaged, it means she’s human and understands that it’s not about being perfect but being beautifully imperfect.
Being a hot mess means living fully and being okay with figuring yourself out as best you can with grace and authenticity.
She has found her strength in adversity and she wouldn’t change anything about being a beautiful hot mess.
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