"It's unfair to yourself to keep trying to justify why you're holding on to toxicity. There are lessons in letting go and moving on."
Please don't be so hard on your heart but do yourself a favor and snap out of your funk over him. Stop waiting for him to come back to you and please don’t reach out to him anymore. You keep giving him way too much power over your heart and it’s not worth it. I know the truth hurts but you should know by now that he could have fought for you if he truly cared about you.
What is it about him that makes it so hard for you to move on? Was is the tender way he held you in his arms or the sweet “I love yous” that he whispered in your ears? Maybe it was the way he made you feel like you were his priority, even though deep down you knew something was off. I get it, he made you feel amazing, he made you think that what you had was real. He told you everything you wanted to hear and made you fall for him hard. He also disappointed you, he broke your heart.
You’ve spent way too many nights crying for him and overthinking every single moment that you spent together. You've spent way too much time trying to figure out if there’s anything that you could have done differently to make him stay. The truth is, you didn’t do anything wrong, he didn’t follow through with all the promises that he made and simply walked away.
He didn’t appreciate you or care for you enough to fight for what you had. He wasn’t meant to be and it’s time for you to come to terms with that reality. You have to be strong, you have to get yourself together, focus on yourself and do everything in your power to get rid of every part of him that has taken over your soul.
There is nothing you could have done differently, so stop blaming and hating yourself. One day soon you’ll realize that he was just a chapter in your life and none of the “I love yous” that he said will have an effect on your heart. It’s not your fault that he couldn’t handle your love.
Please be gentle with your heart, It’s not fair to give your heart to someone who’s not worth your love. Don’t allow him to dull your ability to love, you’re better off without him.
Your heart is in pain right now but it’s only temporary. You think you want him back but you really don’t need him in your life. Love yourself and give your heart time to heal. Please trust that you’ll get through this and that you will come out the other side ready to be loved by someone who’s truly deserving of your heart.
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