The sour patch girl is the girl who is sour on the outside, but sweet on the inside. She comes off as a little cold at first, but don’t let that hardened exterior fool you.
Underneath it all, she’s one of the sweetest girls you’ll ever meet. She’s just learned to act tough over the years. But that’s all it is – an act.
Don’t let her passive ‘fuck you’ attitude throw you off. She has a candy-coated heart underneath all that sour. All it takes is a little time to find it.
This is a girl who takes relationships very seriously. She can be confusing and hard to interpret sometimes. But that doesn't mean she isn't worth it.
As you get to know her, there are a few things you should keep in mind:
1. She seems to get annoyed easily.
Don’t take it to heart – she probably isn’t really annoyed with you. It’s just her sarcastic, sassy nature coming out.
Sometimes she forgets to rein it in, but she means no harm.
2. She may not always have a smile on her face.
She isn’t an open book when it comes to her feelings, but don’t assume she’s mad or not having a good time.
She’s probably thrilled on the inside; it just doesn’t reflect well in her demeanor.
3. She can be erratic at times.
She can be quick to react or make a snap judgement if something sets her off. But then she’s just as quick to apologize for it.
4. She can be way too blunt.
She’s honest but incredibly direct. It often comes off as critical, but she means well. Don’t think she’s being mean or trying to hurt you.
In her mind, she’s genuinely trying to help out of care for you.
5. She gets hurt easily.
Though she doesn’t look it, she is extremely sensitive. Your words may affect her more than you realize. It doesn't take much to hurt her.
6. She will do everything she can to hide that pain.
She doesn’t want to appear weak or harm her tough girl appearance. So she will bury that pain as best she can.
But if you look closely enough, you can see it in her eyes.
7. She’s incredibly hard on herself.
She sets high standards for herself, and she gets mad if she feels she isn’t living up to them. She’s constantly doubting herself or striving to be better.
So when you think she’s being hard on you, imagine what she must be telling herself.
Just remember…appearances can be very misleading. She won't be sour for long.
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