To many, you’re fascinating. You have an ability to possess an equal set of qualities of both introverts and extroverts. As an outgoing wallflower, this allows you to flourish in every social setting:
1. You adapt to any type of environment.
You may find yourself at a variety of different types of parties because you don’t have just one type of crowd. Like a chameleon, you have the ability to adapt to just about anything and more than that thrive doing so.
2. You can hang with any type of crowd.
Being both an introvert and extrovert, you’re able to understand both types of people. You find yourself relating to not just one person, but to all. You have the ability to find a common ground with each of them.
You realize that there’s more than what meets the eye and you make it a point to give everyone the equal light of day.
3. You know how to get people out of their shells.
Because you have the ability to read people so well, you know how to talk to certain people. You attempt to include everyone at social events and don’t fear conversations with strangers.
Your ability to get out of your shell helps others do the same.
4. You have a sense of empathy unlike anyone else.
Empathy is an emotion that can’t be taught, and it is this emotion that captivates the hearts of everyone you interact with.
5. You lack judgment and listen attentively.
People feel they can confide in you. You hold people’s secrets close to your heart and keep them in confidence, valuing the fact that they told you in the first place.
6. You’re very in tune with your emotions..
Your instincts tell you to follow your heart. While some may see you as overly emotional, it isn’t something you are ashamed of. Rather, you embrace it.
7. You accept everyone’s flaws and short-comings.
Like yourself, who isn’t perfect, you know everybody comes from different experiences and has overcome their own battles. Therefore, the art of accepting others is what people find most compelling about you.
8. You have a lot of friends.
Despite your tendencies to be an introvert (when you choose to be), you do have a large social circle and are well liked. The nights you choose to stay in, when everyone doesn’t, is because you value your alone time just as much as you value time with others.
You are an outgoing wallflower. You see things and feel things. You understand.
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