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Finding Your Identity After Losing Him

Breakups are never ideal and they sure as hell are not easy. 

Becoming a single person after being 2 for so long something changes.

Suddenly you only have to think about what you want to eat and where you want to go.

Every choice you make is solely yours.

It feels kind of empty and lonely a lot of the time. 

But as time goes on you get more used to being on your own.

You start to decide what you have interest in and what you have a passion for.

Sometimes being in a relationship you loose sight of yourself and now for the first time in a long time, you see it. You see who you are. 

You start to become passionate about things you haven’t been before. 

Your life path will take you places you’ve never dreamed of because now, you don’t have anyone to hold you back. You’re free. 

You have the freedom to travel, to move, to take the job and to finally be yourself without relying on someone else to tell you who you are. 

Learn to love yourself, be spontaneous, try new foods and laugh often because life’s to short to live it for somebody else. 

You’re not selfish, you’re just doing you and that’s okay.