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An Open Letter to the Commitment Phobe

I thought I could change you and that was my first mistake. I know you never meant to break my heart but sometimes I wish you just left it where you found it. 

You knew you couldn't love me the way I deserved and I shouldn't have been one of your victim. Other times I realize I needed this in order to realize my worth to a man. 

You didn't break me but you did give me more strength and even more love and appreciation for my next relationship. 

The girls you lead on are going to get tired. They are going to see through your wit and charm and realize they deserve much better than the minimal effort you give to them. 

There will be girls who will not put up with your sh*t and there will be more girls like me who will wait. 

No girl is perfect. We will have our flaws but you are not the person who is allowed to point them out.

I don't feel sorry for myself. I feel sorry for you. 

You never have opened your heart enough to the joy, passion, understanding, commitment all to the one you love. 

You'll always be alone when you give half of your heart to a different girl. A girl you can't fully love. 

So I hope one day you will find the girl of your dreams. The girl you can fully give your heart to. The girl who in your eyes is worth it. 

I hope she is everything you wish for and I hope she does not break your heart like you did mine. I believe everyone, even you are deserving of love. 

Here's my goodbye and my thank you for letting me go.