My mom always tells me, “Everyone else can’t be wrong all the time, sometimes you are at fault” and she used this each time I had an issue with someone or came home complaining about someone. The thing is, we are humans and in as much as people can be annoying, we should also consider the fact that we are the annoying side of the situation. Some people never consider themselves wrong and this is really bad. There are a lot of repulsive behaviors we find in people and these behaviors affect us also, because the way we look at another, someone else looks at us same. The truth is that you shouldn’t live your life according to the dictations of other people, but in the real world, there is a need for balance; a need to know how to act outside (in a formal setting) and also, how to act when in a social setting or even indoors with friends and family. Sometimes, it is best we look back at ourselves and consider if there have been situations whereby our relationships with people are just cut off and consider if the following are part of the reasons why;
Bad health habits and Lack of Fitness Practices
Bad health habits can be very repulsive and have a major influence on both social and formal life. It affects people’s perception of us and even how we look. As it is said, staying healthy is good business and should be pursued at all cost. The way around this particular problem is living healthy one way to do that is through working out. So, if you are healthy and are able to be fit, you become a people magnet, this because we as humans, we like associating themselves with anything that looks good and presentable. There are a lot of ways in which an individual can get healthy and look fit, one of them involves registering in a gym while the other has to do with buying the gym appliances for your home (if you can afford it). But either choice you make, you need to have a little knowledge of health and fitness machines for a befitting fitness routine.
Unfriendly Behaviors
Unfriendliness can cut and hinder a lot of relationships, informal and formal. As an individual, it is always good that you treat everyone nicely because this goes a long way in building our reputation among other people and also increases those who come close to us. No man is an island, so saying that you don’t need anyone at all in your life is wrong. It might be acceptable if you say you need few people around you, but it doesn’t mean everyone else gets treated poorly
Snoring
This is another very repulsive tendency that drives people away. For some people, it is bearable but for a majority, it is a NO. Snoring shouldn’t be considered a minor issue and should be treated duly. The most common cause is health related. There are numerous solutions and devices that can be used to stop snoring so a little research needs to be done for one to find a befitting one. Getting the wrong anti-snoring device can cause a lot of discomforts and well as worsen the situation
Once these reasons have been taken care of, there is bound to be a sizable increase in the way people interact with you and the duration of relationships you get into. Remember to always wear a smile, be the best you can be and treat everyone you come across the way you want to be treated